This is your life. It’s experience is unique to you. You are unique to the world, because no one can experience what you can.
YOU can help others, by expressing your experience, through your gifts. YOU can inspire others, in living a life they want to live, by you living it in the first place.
In a way, it can be seen as selfish, if you do not share what you know, what you have in overflow, if you are scared about what others may think.
So living it the way you want it, the way you feel is authentic to you, with no ones approval and nothing to prove, how would that feel?
Of course there are consequences to your choices, and that is fine. We have a responsibility to be responsible. But there are choices and by not reviewing them regularly you are doing yourself and others a disservice, because they too will think that they have to hide from the world.
But at the end of the day, it’s YOUR life, it’s YOUR experience. What do you want to be, do, have? Dare to Live To Love Everyday.